Weekly reading post #4

Admin notes:



These are links to things that I was reading when I answered a tagtime ping with nonfiction. There are a few omissions if I wasn’t able to conveniently note something down when I was reading it, but no deliberate omissions other than books.



These are links that I think are worth highlighting but did not get subjected to a tagtime ping (or did get subjected to one but I feel are especially worth noting).

Apparently the main selected links this week are all about conversational styles.

Miller’s Law in the Archipelago of Weird is about a variety of things, but I particularly like the point about conversational styles (in this case around performing small talk) differing strongly between autistic and allistic people and this creating a situation of competing needs.

It also leads into the next batch of selected links, which are about a different aspect of conversational styles, and the role interruption plays in conversation:


I was looking for the first one and got linked to the second two by other people (Ceren and Jeremy), but they’re all good reads.

The major take away point is that in some cultures interruption is the height of rudeness because you’re signalling that you think you are more important than the current speaker, while in others not interrupting is the height of rudeness because you’re signalling that you don’t care about the conversation. Interruption can be combative, or it can be collaborative, and clash over this without understanding that that’s what’s going on can lead to some horrible conversations.

Other things I liked that doen’t fit the theme:


Books read this week


These are any books I spent a substantial amount of time with this week.


Books Gifted This Week


One book arrived from my wishlist this week: Switch: How to change when change is hard. This was bought for me by Zack M. Davis.